Do you really want to be heard?
Some people think just because they read out loud, they can be heard. Not so. It takes PRACTICE, PRACTICE, PRACTICE.
First, it takes courage.
Then, it takes determination
Next is generosity - sharing your thoughts, being vulnerable
After that comes focus. Stand tall, feet grounded on the floor, or sit comfortably with your spine against the back of the chair, with your feet on the floor.
Don't clear your throat. It is harsh on the vocal chords.
Yawn, or laugh or breathe.
Practice listening to yourself, if possible. If not, look straight ahead, head up, eyes forward. This is important. EYES FORWARD. When the head is pointed downwards, it cuts off the sound that should be directed forward.
Now is the time to share your words, feelings, visions, opinions and/or ideas.
If all you want to do is read or recite your words, fine. People will be polite and listen.
If, on the other hand, you want to be heard, make a point, evoke discussions, dialogue or share an opinion, then it is vitally important to engage the attention of the listener. This can be done with eye contact. Looking ahead will give the reader a moment to focus. Just because a reader feels they have something to say doesn't mean others feel the same way. However, if a reader can attract the attention of the listener, they can create communication between the speaker and the audience.
Nervousness comes with the territory. It is totally okay to be nervous. Sometimes singing helps in discovering the sound of one's voice. Sometimes yoga breathing helps. Personally, I find yoga breathing to be so important that it must be included in every practical ritual.
Reading out loud, like singing out loud, is liberating and empowering. It will claim one's energy and identity. BUT, it does take time and patience. Be kind to yourself and don't judge the sound of your own voice. It's yours to enjoy and use. Others will hear you.
Reading out loud should be fun. Even difficult subjects can be shared when the writer understands that the challenge must be taken on like the three musketeers - with derring-do.
This is the first step to making new friends, becoming confident and understanding the power that writing offers. Shyness is okay. So are accents. All that truly matters is sharing. Do it and do it and do it again.
Honey Novick