Writing is difficult. It takes years of practice and development before we can trust others and reveal our true selves on the page. Bringing believable words to share with others, in the midst of sensitive topics, can make the process even more challenging. There is hope though, in the form of coping strategies and techniques that can get writers closer to the finish line.
Finding a network of like-minded individuals can provide hesitant writers with much-needed encouragement. Getting through the process is much easier than recounting and reliving the experience on your own. If you are searching for groups that share your writing goals, there are many you can turn to for support. The options range from a circle of trusted writerly friends to more well-established writing professionals. With most workshops and courses moving online these days, the options are endless. Whether you decide to stick with a familiar circle of friends or branch out to online writing groups, the decision is up to you. But the main idea is to build a consistent schedule where writing becomes a regular habit. The great thing about writing groups is they tend to add structure to your writing routine, creating a schedule that makes you more accountable. When you say you are going to write you’ve made that commitment and you don’t want to disappoint.
On the other hand, the act of writing and sharing stories with others doesn’t always work for a variety of reasons. It could be that the topic is deeply personal and/or traumatic and reliving the experience through writing could be a triggering moment. If a writing group isn’t your thing, then maybe writing independently is the best alternative. You can create your own schedule and write at your own pace.
But if you get stuck, there are many writing apps, online courses and resources that can help you develop your skills. A valuable aspect of joining a writing group is to develop a fresh perspective on the writing process. Perhaps your inability to tackle a tough topic is buried in the fact that the approach you are taking to express creatively is not the best method for you. By attending writing groups you might find a new technique or method of approach that is effective for your needs in helping to build the supports you need for your writing journey.
Angela Walcott